Saturday, August 1, 2009

Meeting Girls by Being a Real Man & (Connecting With Your Inner Animal)

This blog post is simple: Meet girls & approach girls by being the best you... A new you... A better man & stronger individual.

Anxiety and worrying about every possible thing that can go wrong can be so crippling that it effects your current state... The constant flow of negative thoughts (doubt) and thinking too much of this can be an obsession & a very hard habit to break. Its no wonder why thinking too much will paralyze your game and life...

The truth about taking life by the balls and living like a king.... money, power, respect, love.. for the wheels to start rolling into the right direction... is the way to go. Always work on yourself as a man. Dress better. Live Better. Learn More. Take chances and go to places to meet women.

Because after all we are not little boys waiting for our lives to magically change... We're all smart here.... you have to be a man and make things happen... The question is are you ready to step up and make it a commitment?

You owe it to yourself... lets face it you came here for a reason.... I know that practical tips on how to get the girl will give you a new level of confidence and it will grow each and every day.

On the topic of women and those transitioning from the pick up artist type game.... you can see why this is more powerful and applies to all aspects of your life....... memorizing routines & scripts as a strategy for getting girls can easily be forgotten and energy draining.... but deep ingrained beliefs about yourself will always breed success. That's a guarantee.

Here is an exercise to try: Finding Your Inner Animal (Connecting with it to have more power and become a more dominant male)

Imagine a dominant animal: tiger, lion, wolf, bear... etc

Lets all live more like this and use these amazing powerful beasts as a perfect example to increase our dominance & dealing with life...

If a Tiger was hungry and craved something.... do you think the Tiger would sit around and stress over if he can hunt or get it done??? Nope.... He has too much power and belief in himself so when he's hungry he gets up, hunts his prey and gets results. Nothing like being fed in life....

If a Wolf wanted to find a mate.... Do you think a Wolf would ever worry or have the though cross his mind if a girl had a boyfriend or she didnt like him because I'm not big enough, tall enough, have enough money or didnt know what to say before stepping over to her... HELL NO

These dominant animals will be in tune with their dominant essence and go after what they want... have a strong lead and confidence knowing they will get it... and when something attacks them they will attacks it back X10...

Thats the way to approach life.... start living with full confidence in yourself because you are the man and attack your problems... you take the action and get what you want.

Being Alone Vs. Being Lonely: The Lone Wolf Story

I've been getting a lot of feedback and into discussions on becoming a more independent person. This is so critical and important if.... if... if you are interested in becoming a stronger person.

Many people in life are lonely... They feel that a special someone, a new car, new tv, or whatever other item will fix the main root of their issues. Sure it will......... for the short run and then once the thrill wears off... we are back at square one again. Lonely feelings creep back up and this process will continue until that individual realizes that they need to do some inner work on themselves....

A strong person is one that can deal with life confidently & comfortably alone.
The key to gaining this ultimate self confidence is to be your own best company & to think of all your goodies, friends, other safety nets as the icing on your cake in life & be comfortable in the absence of them.

When you are alone.... you can do great things in your life. Freedom is the ultimate motivator as we can set goals, put in hard work, and produce in this world. It's simple.... when you are always around people it can limit your true inner potential....

Listen to the podcast below as I go deeper into this topic & a mission on how to become a lone wolf.

Click here to listen to my new podcast on how to become a stronger man, the lone wolf.

Friday, July 31, 2009

New Meeting Women, Building Better Men Forum

Click & join the forum, start asking questions or posting information

My goal is to create a large network of real men talking about real men issues... growing as men and learning ... constantly improving... mentors and students together... a strong brotherhood. Meeting Women Wealth & Business Fitness Health Entertainment & Education Leadership All the finer things in life.... Register, contribute, & lets get the movement started

Monday, July 27, 2009

The Best Male Role Models To Learn From Episode #2: Harrison Ford Preview

My new series: The best male role models podcasts will go over the best characteristics, attitudes, to becoming a better man.

My Goal & Mission is to Build Better Men… Great Role Models gives you something to study, take it in and make it your own. Learn from the best no need to reinvent the wheel.

Harrison Ford will be the next featured role model to learn from and that podcast will be posted on my podcast site

Here is a nice preview for the time being:


Keep on the lookout of this new special podcast show exclusively available to thevalmontshow listeners

Open Your Eyes: Meeting Women Day & Night They Are Everywhere

If you are single or looking to meet more women and are having difficulties..... Time to do something about it.... Thats what men do, we solve problems... Let's get it started....

It's time to do some simple things that will increase your success and put yourselves into more chances to meet women, have them in your life & enjoy them!

First things first:

1. You must be ready every time you leave the house to meet someone new.... Always be aware of the golden opportunities.

2. You must dress for success, it will dramatically increase your results when approaching women: Here is my free podcast on the power of dressing well & some men's fashion tips

3. Get out of the house more: Any reason to leave the house will give you more chances to meet women:

Examples: Grab a coffee/tea and read a book, go to a bookstore browse around or purchase a new magazine on something you enjoy..... Go food shopping less: Go when you need to make dinner, or pick something up quick... more times you go, more times to run into girls you want to meet.... Go to pharmacy/health stores: even to pickup gum or grooming products this is a place girls frequent quite often (beauty supply heaven) The malls are a given with all the stores women love and the food court you will have tons tons tons of great single women to meet.


And those are all places that do not include everyone's favorite bars & clubs.... You also have online dating but that is another subject.... Put in your hard work & you will get the success you desire.

To close it off.... Stop reading this.... Go out and meet some women!

Until Next Time,

King Valmont

Sunday, July 26, 2009

The Power of Mental Fortitude In Achieving Your Dreams

Anything worthwhile in life is gonna take work....

Whatever you desire can be achievable... The most important thing is to remember that you will make a commitment to yourself that no matter what comes in the way... you will stay focused and stay on track to making your dreams happen. Think big picture always: Lets go into an example regards to work/career paths:

Imagine you are working a dead end job that you hate... but it pays the bills... and you have a passion... a passion to do something you enjoy and make a living out of it... This is your dream and you may have many obstacles to overcome... but always remember to stay strong, your struggles will only be temporary.... that mental fortitude is key... sticking with it... nothing comes easy and quick... just keep working at it until it's complete.... all successful people realize this..... You may have to work that job you hate and at the same time put in extra time you would normally do other things into your passion. Put in your hard time, because that extra dedication will get you into the place you wanna be. This applies with everything in life.... start setting goals, your desire to grow will motivate you, and set that action plan with how you are going to get there.

Then once you get started and your dreams start becoming realities... it will never be complete, we will always crave more and to reach higher levels... And that is the beauty of life... constant self improvement and discovery....

You owe it all to yourselves... to make these commitments & make them priorities to your lives... your hard work in the present day will create your dream future....

Let's get it started...... NOW